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Episode 62: Bad Like Rihanna? It Ain’t In Me, You Guys!

Episode 62: Bad Like Rihanna? It Ain’t In Me, You Guys!

If I were bad like Riri, I would’ve grinded my 20’s away and enjoyed being single.

I wanted to be a bad girl. The kind of girl that shrugs if a guy doesn’t call back. In fact, she’s the one who forgot to call. She’s the one who ghosted and had another chico on standby because he was “just another n*** on the hit list.” And didn’t she tell you that she was a savage?

Yea, that kind of girl. A girl like Riri. That is who I longed to be. Cause it’s easier when you’re the one calling all the shots in a relationship.

If I were bad like Riri, I would have dismissed fulano de tal for not treating me like a Queen. If I were bad like Riri, I would have grinded my 20’s away and enjoyed being single, instead of sweating this guy and that guy and repeatedly mending my broken heart. If I were as bad as Riri, I wouldn’t give a fuck, fuck a dude, and be like, “Don’t call me!”

Now, get yo ass out my place. Cause I DON’T TO CUDDLE!

But, that’s not me, you guys! I’m the good girl that falls hard and is loyal to a fault. I’m the good girl that wants to be loved and desired, and if she isn’t, she falls to pieces. I’m the good girl that cries when a man she digs disappears like Casper the Ghost. Do you know how many pillows I’ve stained with my mascara? As many blunts as Riri has smoked. So imaginate!

Yea, I want to be bad. My cousin, Yari, says it isn’t too late for me. I can retrain my mind, heart, and soul and be as bad as Rihanna.

Can I? Is it possible to change from mushy and cuddly AF to I don’t give a fuck?

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Should I pretend to be bad and play games in my relationship? Should you? I dish on this, what I really think about natural flirts (skanks! Jk, jk, jk) and more on episode 62 of Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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