You and your man get into an argument and he spits out some nasty words that stab you in the heart, back and the heart again. OWWW!
I’ve been there. Boo has said some things to me that struck my core. And I to him. This is what happens in long-term relationships: the longer you are with your partner, the more comfortable you become to tell it like it is. And what you “tell” can be mean, hurtful, but also, educational.
Say whaaaat?! Saw word.
If you allow your bae’s fucked up words to sink in, and not put your walls and armor up, you will learn something about your personality, your traits, how you love and how you need to be loved. Because your partner probably doesn’t have the same perception of you as you do of yourself. That’s life. That’s real talk.
How do you take it in and not beat his ass instead? How do you take your bae’s fucked up words and turn it into an “aha” moment? Sujeiry dishes on this and how to learn about yourself in these breaking and breakthrough relationship moments on Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw on reVolver Podcast.