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Episode 65: Why You Date FuckBoys w/ Jenny from MindfulMamis

Episode 65: Why You Date FuckBoys w/ Jenny from MindfulMamis

No matter how much I said I wanted a healthy relationship I ended up with a fucking fuck boy.

So you keep dating fuckboy, eh? I hear you, I feel you. Because for a long time I did too.

It’s like I was the ying to the fuckboys yang, the Yoko to their Lennon. I could not get enough of them and them of me. No matter how much I said I wanted a healthy, committed relationship with a man who loved me reciprocally, I ended up with a fucking fuck boy.

What is a fuckboy exactly? If you haven’t figured it out quite yet, a fuckboy is a player. A man who can’t commit and sleeps around instead. In Dominican speak, a fuckboy is un mujeriogo and kind of a loser.

I met my first fuckboy at 18 year old, decades before the term came to be. His name is Kurt, and although I didn’t fuck him, he treated me like a piece of caca and played with my heart and mind despite the fact that I was in luuuuuuuuuuuurve with him. I now know it was stupid, pathetic, unrequited puppy love, but at the time, I wanted and needed Kurt to desire me. He knew that and used me. He had me on the shelf. Way back! And I let him.

That’s right, I said I let him. I allowed this fuckboy to enter my life (in and out, in and out) for 10 years. 10 years!!! That’s on me.

Why did I allow it? You ask. I wasn’t crazy, I knew exactly what I wanted – him. And I tell you my reasons on this podcast episode. Press play to listen to episode 65 of Love Sujeiry: Talk Served Raw where myself and Jenny from MindfulMamis.com dish on fuckboys – why we date them, love them and keep going back to them.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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