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The Love Trips Project: Writing is Hard!


The Love Trips Project: Writing is Hard!

Dear Pepitas,

It’s a lot more challenging to write every day than I expected. Though I’m the type of woman who loves a challenge (ask my former boyfriends/lovers/stalkees), I am still learning to be the type of woman who loves discipline and waking up early in the morning.  But no more! I need to get my caca together or suffer a miserable, regretful death!

Ok, perhaps it’s not that serious.

The fact of the matter is that I refuse to live life with “what ifs.” That’s why I need to summon my discipline in order to complete Love Trips (the book). I am a focused individual, but somehow, somewhere, the focus fails to translate to a routine. For example, this week I said I would wake up daily at 8am to write. Well, guess who slept in till 11am on Monday? All fingers point to the hot Dominicana writer who plans to take over the relationship genre (with a dash of humor) by huracan!

Your fingers should be pointing to this post.

But don’t fret my pets. I will get my caca together with your help. All I need is a little tough love! If it’s been days since a 1st Lady of Love post, dammit, call me a liar, whack me over the head with FB pokes, unfollow my ass on Twitter! I do hope it doesn’t come to this, and am pretty confident that it won’t. I said I would finish off Crazy Conchita and I did! So I can do anything! With that, I leave you Pepitas y Pepitos. I must go to work. Young minds need to be molded and mentored (imagine?!) by Sujeiry Gonzalez, my other identity.  Till tomorrow!

With love and a heart full of goals,



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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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