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Motivation: Becoming Comfortable with Change

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Motivation: Becoming Comfortable with Change

Change is part of life so we must become comfortable with change. Here’s how Sujeiry is dealing with her new life in Los Angeles.

I am often uncomfortable with change. Much like others, I resist it when life flip flops, twists and throws us unexpected curve balls. On the contrary, when it’s a change that I have put in motion, I am open. I embrace the change. I welcome the change and am motivated by the change and see gain, not loss.

This is how I feel in Los Angeles. It has been a week since I landed in LAX and I feel ready and happy. I wasn’t unhappy before but I did feel stifled.

Today, I feel free.

Maybe it’s the cool climate. Perhaps it’s the laid back west coast vibe or how welcoming friends have been during my stay. Regardless of the why’s, I feel myself changing. I feel like I am my independent self again.

Because I am on my own, after living in my mother’s home for the last 6 years.

Because I am making decisions based on what I desire and my happiness, without fear of failure, without fearing CHANGE.

That can only mean one thing; I am becoming comfortable with being uncomfortable. I am allowing change to transform me into a less controlling and fearful mujer. That, loves, has been my goal for 2012. That’s why I plunged into freezing waters during The Polar Bear Plunge. That is why this year I chose to abandon psychics, so I can live day to day, even if the next day is unsure.

That is why I am here in Los Angeles; a place I dreamt of yet I was too afraid to live that dream. Until now.

And all I see is gain.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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