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Dream A Little Dream: I Am Latina Smart!

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Dream A Little Dream: I Am Latina Smart!

When I was in junior high school, I dreamt I’d be the cutest Dominican bride. My future husband would be Jairo Madera, a classmate of mine since the fourth grade. Joey from New Kids on the Block was unavailable. Besides, Jairo was cute enough. I wanted to rub my hands in his dirty blonde hair and spend 7 Minutes in Heaven. I wanted a last name that translates to ‘Wood” in English. Sujeiry Madera had such a nice ring to it, I thought.

But Jairo and the Universe had other plans.

Jairo broke my 12 year old heart when he made out with my “friend” Linda. While The Universe wanted me single so I could focus on my education and professional dreams.

So I can become Latina Smart.

Though I just joined the Latina Smart campaign, I have always been hard working, determined and passionate about my education and career goals. Let’s fast forward to high school, where I was still single, yet very educated. I attended the prestigious Phillips Academy Andover in Andover, Massachusetts. The only Dominican in my graduating class, I had to push even harder to prove that I belonged. And I did because I knew I was smart enough and that I did belong. Still, like any teenage girl, boys were on the brain. While I dreamt of going away to college and pursuing a career in entertainment and media, I also envisioned meeting my future husband. It wasn’t Jairo. Sujeiry Madera had a terrible ring to it, I thought. Whomever he was, I was convinced he attended The University of Massachusetts at Amherst.

Now, here I am. 34, single and extremely happy with my relationship status and professional path. I published by first book, Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles, in January . I am a successful freelance writer with a Masters degree in Writing Arts. My dream of being someone’s wife may not have come to fruition (yet) but my dream of success is here, and so much better. I didn’t allow my love woes to extinguish my determination. In fact, I turned those troubles into lessons and I am now a relationship (non)expert, helping women make better choices in love. Though I was heartbroken in college by Kurt, who constantly made out with other women in front of me (the second coming of Jairo!), I studied, graduated and pursued my dream of becoming a successful, passionate and fulfilled creative being. I keep my dream alive because I believe in myself and my talents.

Because I am Latina Smart.

Yes. Jairo and The Universe had other plans. He released me (kissed Linda) because she (The Universe) wanted me free to succeed and live my dreams.

Share with us. How do you as a Smart Latinas keep your dreams alive?

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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