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Be Careful What You Wish For…

Make A Wish


Be Careful What You Wish For…

Make A Wish
They say be careful what you wish for or you just might get it.

That’s what I’ve been experiencing lately. My career is booming (I now have writing contracts with Vista Magazine, Babble,, MSN Latino, and then some). And it wasn’t too long ago that I asked the Universe for a relationship with a man who was my friend, first and foremost.

In came my now ex, Paco. He and I began as friends. I could talk to him about anything. But, after a while, the intimacy and romantic connection didn’t grow into love.

[ALSO READ: 5 Ways to Forget an Ex]

Then it hit me: I had asked very specifically for a man who is my friend. I didn’t ask for love, connection, intimacy or passion. And so I only really got a friend. As for my career, it’s going so well that I work seven days a week. I am blessed but exhausted.

Something’s gotta give.

[ALSO READ: Are We Losing Our Trust in Intimacy?]

So, today I will change my tune. When I get home from my day job as Senior Producer of Relationship Content for Loop21, I will say aloud, “I am my own boss and will succeed on my own. It begins in August.”

As I type at this instant, I am whispering this into existence:

“I am going to marry a man who adores me, loves me, and is enamored with me…just as I am with him. And we will have an amazing partnership that consists of a strong foundation, including trust, commitment, dependability and friendship. He will feel passion for me as I for him. We will laugh together and be each others comrades. And we will build a life and family together, as if we were meant only for each other.”

And so it shall be.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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