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A Lesson from the Almost Latina Magazine Advice Columnist

Sujeiry Babble Relationship Contributor

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A Lesson from the Almost Latina Magazine Advice Columnist

Sujeiry Babble Relationship Contributor
If at first you don’t succeed… Try. Hustle. Remain proactive.

This has been my lesson in life. Nothing in my life has come without stumbles. I haven’t always known what I wanted, who I was or even what I needed to do to get where I am today. But I never gave in. I tried. Hustled. Remained proactive.

Case in point: my new position with Loop21 as an advice columnist and Senior Producer of Relationship Content. Before I accepted this job, I was up for the job as relationship and love expert for Latina Magazine. It was my “dream” job. I worked for Latina as a dating blogger from 2009-2010. Just this year (March 2013) I was featured in Latina Magazine as a relationship expert. I thought I had it in the bag! This job is mine! It is meant for me, I assured myself. But I didn’t get it.

I cried. For a full day, I was down on myself. It was a Pitty Party for una. The following day I picked myself up and applied for more gigs. I send media kits and pitched myself like my rent depended on it, like I had 10 kids to feed, but with all the confidence in the world, knowing my worth and that I am damn good at what I do. Aaaaall of this talent is worth mucho dinero and respect!

Two weeks later I started at Loop21. A month later, I was offered a regular relationship contributor job at Babble.

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And just yesterday I submitted my three pieces to Vista Magazine.

So, you see, I was meant to be where I am. I picked myself up, tried, hustled and remained proactive in the face of confusion and disappointment. Whenever you are in this position, remember this story. Where you are now and how successful you become depends on you and your willingness and your confidence. Keep trying. Keep hustling. Be proactive no matter what comes your way.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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