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5 Ways To Boost Your Womanly Confidence When You’re Down

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5 Ways To Boost Your Womanly Confidence When You’re Down

A confident woman is a sexy woman.

Emotionally, women sometimes feel like they are on a roller coaster. Some days we are ready to conquer the world; other days we rather hide and indulge in chocolate. When you are feeling down about life and yourself, those are the days for a confidence boost.

Some might think it is silly but having a boosting system can quickly change your perspective. Having positive people in your life is a great way to look for inspiration and build self-esteem. However, doing it on your own is also necessary as we can’t always depend on others to make us feel better. Here are five ways to boost your confidence for the next time you’re feeling blue.

Take a pole dancing class.
Women should feel sexy and appreciate their bodies. Whether you’re thick or a skinny minnie, you should twerk what your mama gave you. Check out your local pole dancing classes or a vixen workout. With just one class, you’ll be feeling as naturally high as Beyonce when on her surfboard.

PLUS: Don’t Ever Give Up On Your Goals!

Read some quotes.
Sometimes all you need to increase your confidence is a good piece of written work. Even a simple, inspirational quote can change your mood. I personally love quotes and try to save as many as I can so I have a collection at my disposal. Whenever I’m upset a simple quote can bring me from 0 to 10!

Treat yourself.
All work and no play is not the way to live. You should treat yourself whenever you can. A manicure, a new pair of shoes, a massage: these treats are great pick me ups. Every girl loves to be pampered. Who better to do it than you ?

Give yourself a pep talk.
Talking to yourself may seem loopy, but you’ll be surprised how helpful it is. You might not want to chat yourself up at your job, but when you’re alone and have your thoughts together, give yourself a pep talk. You should be your biggest fan and cheerleader. Remind yourself of that.

Work out.
Pent up emotions are not healthy. So, why not work out or wail on a punching bag to release all the burden? Every time you exercise, you are that much closer to feeling better. Take your negative energy and burn it off!

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Kattya Servellon

Kattya Servellon is a lifestyle blogger, beauty guru and relationship expert living the life of a 23 year old Latina from NY. Get to know her and all her lifestyle tips on A Perfect Wreck.


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