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How Women Can Be Sensual and Sexual Without Shame

How Women Can Be Sensual and Sexual Without Shame

Sex was a dirty word. I had difficulty accepting sensual self without shame.

I used to see a naked female body and think, “Eek! Put your bits away!” I even felt embarrassed when Mami would walk naked from her bedroom to the bathroom and back. (That lady sure loves to air dry.) And my sister? She often wiped her vage with a towel in front of me. Once, she even did so (front to back, ladies) in front of my college friends. Never forget….

So, what was the big deal? I’m a woman; why did seeing boobs and ass freak me out? It felt dirty and shameful. I was ashamed of my body, sensuality and sexuality. I didn’t understand why; I just knew that I couldn’t fathom nakedness. I would turn away in the girls locker room in high school. I would clutch my towel to my body as if I’d be violated otherwise. And I envied Mami, my sister, and other women who felt free enough to strip down to their birthday suit.

Well, time allows us to transform, learn and grow. I now embrace my nakedness. I love my small breasts and accept my low hanging, wide but not round nargas. I am no longer afraid of being a sensual and sexual being.

I still have more work to, though. While I don’t shake my head in shame or guilt when someone isn’t fully clothed, I still don’t feel like I have fully unleashed my inner sensual and sexual Goddess. I am still holding onto thoughts and feelings about sex and what it is to be a mujer Latina that were instilled in me as a young chica. I am working through it. Jenny from Mindful Mamis is also, and she shares her journey and how women can be sensual and sexual without shame on the second episode of Love Sujeiry LIVE.

Watch, learn and love yo self.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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