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How a Cat Flying on a Plane Wing is a Metaphor for Dating

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How a Cat Flying on a Plane Wing is a Metaphor for Dating

A terrified cat flying on a plane wing is much like a frazzled gal after a horrid date.

When watching this video of a cat flying on a plane wing, I immediately thought of how it is a metaphor for dating. Think about it: you’re out there, single and looking, and hoping for a love connection. Your heart is flapping in the wind, terrified that you will fall in love only to be hurt. And crash into a palm tree or a truck transporting kitty litter to Walmart, or worse – an ex at a bar who looks as gorgeous as ever while you look like a fur ball who just flew on a plane wing.

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Sometimes you meet someone. You think: he’s “the one.”  This love ride feels freeing, like you’re flying in the wind, just like this pussy cat. But sometimes, lies, confusion, and shocking surprises are revealed and hit you at your core. Much like the wind hits this poor pussy cat in the face!

But you hold on. Just like that kitty cat, you don’t let go. You push forward and hope for a safe landing. That one day a love that is healthy, unconditional and reciprocal will find you, and that the crazy, unexpected yet liberating ride called dating will be but a memory.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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