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5 Ways Women Can Be Better Lovers According to Men

In a relationship, sex can become dull. It doesn’t have to! How can you spice it up? Here’s some sex advice according to men on how women can be better lovers.

by Patrick Banks

Sex is an essential, physical expression of love. Often times for women it is experienced in the context of a meaningful and lasting romantic relationship. It is more of an emotional experience. How the partners feel about each other determines and influences a woman’s sexual desire and performance level. For a woman, this connection satisfies her sexual drive, reassures her of being loved and serves as a way of expressing her love and commitment for her man.

This doesn’t mean that sex has to be dull. The art of being good in bed is a marvelous skill to have and results in passionate and ecstatic sex. How do you entice your man in he sack? Here are five sex tips to become a better lover according to men.

Erotic massage

Arousing a man isn’t a difficult job, but sometimes we need a little help! A great way to excite your man is to show him that you really love him by way of an erotic, sensuous and titillating massage. Caress and fondle your man gently with your hands or with massage oils. Build his anticipation by stroking him with your hands then with your hair followed by your breasts. Have him lie on his back and massage his legs, abdomen, inner thighs, chest and nipples. Pour some massage oil on his penis and testicles and gently massage and squeeze this sensitive area. An intimate massage in this erogenous zone will make him go crazy with excitement.

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Take charge

Generally, men like to take the lead. However, they also love it when their partners take charge from time to time. A confident and assertive approach will surprise and excite him. Start by seducing him. Strip him of his clothes and decide on the sexual positions. When you take the lead you are showing him that you are really enjoying yourself. This is especially important if he struggles with performance anxiety, premature ejaculation or any other male sexual problem. Plus, it spices up the routine and enables you to explore and express your powerful sexuality.

Look good in bed

Men are visual creatures, so why not wear sexy lingerie that enhances your sexual appeal and makes you look extra sexy and beautiful? Just make sure to wear lingerie and sexy clothing that complement your body and accentuate your features. And remember: even sexy underwear or a tank top with a thong can excite your man.

Try new positions

To not fall into a routine, you must be creative and try new positions in bed. This will make sex more exciting for both of you. Experimenting with new positions and feeling them out can be a fun experience. This will help you leave your comfort zone and, in turn, liven up your sex life. You can also introduce sex toys to discover his erogenous regions as well as yours.

Initiate sex

Because men usually initiate sex, it is always a pleasant surprise for a man if you initiate sex instead. Men often fantasize about a woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. So what are you waiting for? Titillate him by initiating sex and seduce him into pleasurable submission.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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