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The Four Guys You Meet and Hookup With in Your 20’s

When in our 20’s, a good hookup may be all we need. Same goes for when single and in our 30s. Here’s an interesting look at the men we tend to hookup with.

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After sex, some men may be more than meets the eye.

As women, we don’t always realize that men can change after sex. Their flaws creep out of the shadows. Now that the frisky business is out of the way, you can see him clearly for who he is.

So, I was curious about men “after sex.” I asked 15 girls, all in their early twenties, about their post-hookup experiences. After listening to what each had to say, I’ve come to a conclusion: there are four types of guys every girl hooks up with in their twenties.

The One Who Is Rude: This is the guy that has the “bad boy” persona. It isn’t until later that you realize that he is just an inconsiderate jerk. These bad boys typically try to kick you out after they’re finished (cause they don’t care if you orgasm), or make comments like, “It was okay,” or “I’ve had better.” They might let you stay the night only if you cook them breakfast in the morning.

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The One You Regret: You’ll regret sleeping with him immediately after hooking up. One of the 15 women stated, “I don’t know why I did it. I just knew I would never do it again. I felt really bad about myself afterward.”

Your regret may stem from a number of things; he was a friend and now the friendship is ruined, or it was your exes best friend. Regardless, you wish you could take that night all back, only you can’t.

The One Who Is Two-Faced:   You take him home with you, believing he is boyfriend material. He is sweet and charming, and treats you so amazingly the entire night. And it all changes after sex. He’s cold and detached; he’s like a new man and you don’t know why. No longer a potential boyfriend, he isn’t the man you initially though he was.

The One Who Gets Attached: The man who gets attached seems to be the least favorite among the girls. Go figure! He is the one who lingers after a hookup. He just won’t seem to leave you alone, whether he is stalking you on social media or constantly calling or texting. Although the one who gets attached means well, you want him to move on because he was only supposed to be a hookup. He doesn’t understand that you are not interested. Soon, he becomes the one you regret, giving new meaning to the saying, “Be careful who you lay with.”

What kind of men have you hooked up with?

Erynn Castellanos is an aspiring radio broadcaster with an opinion on all things love. Currently going through the trials of most twenty somethings, she balances life and relationships and knows what she wants. Her articles on LoveSujeiry.com tie in her personal experiences while exploring the early stages of dating and the single life.


Photo Credit: Flickr.com/Lorenkerns.

Erynn Castellanos

Erynn Castellanos is an aspiring radio broadcaster with an opinion on all things love. Currently going through the trials of most twenty somethings, she balances life and relationships and knows what she wants. Her articles on LoveSujeiry.com tie in her personal experiences while exploring the early stages of dating and the single life.

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