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4 Signs You Fell in Love With Your Hook Up

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4 Signs You Fell in Love With Your Hook Up

Booty buddy causing heart palpitations? You may just have fallen for him.

Most single girls have that one guy they hook up with from time to time. I’ve had several casual hook ups, but one man was extra special. I developed feelings for him, and realized this when I began texting him traffic reports every couple of days – you know, just in case he wanted to have sex during rush hour.

My hookup also lived near my grandmother. I mentioned this (and him) to my grandma so many times that she followed him to the grocery store one day. Yes, I fell for my hookup so hard that my family was stalking him. Well, not really, but they were curious!

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Not all lovesick symptoms are this extreme – or are they? Here are four signs that you fell for your hookup.

You contact him during business hours.

Like vampires, your hook up should only come to you at night. He’s just your booty call, so there’s no need to contact him during work hours. But you find yourself wondering if he wants to have dinner, catch a movie, and then have sex. That’s actually called a date. And if you want to date him, you like him.

You are all over his social media activity.

You check his Facebook profile on a daily basis. You want to know where he spent Saturday night and who he hung out with. Oh, he has a new Facebook friend – who is this bitch? You check her out too. You are filled with jealousy at just the sight of her because you’re falling for your hook up.

You want him to sleepover. 

You want to cuddle and wake up in his arms. This is followed by an urge to serve him breakfast in bed. If you’re not hitting and quitting it, you want more than sex from this guy.

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Everyone knows about him.

Like maybe even your grandmother! If your friends and family know him by name, or you ramble on about his positive qualities, you are into him. Your feelings have grown. He’s no longer your low-key sex buddy.

What to do? Let him know. The key to any relationship – whether it’s a casual hook up or a serious relationship – is communication.  He may feel the same way. He may not. Unless you talk to him, you will never know if your casual hook up can become much more.

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Tabitha Bauman

Living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Tabitha is a self-proclaimed free spirit who travels extensively throughout the USA. She has a bold writing style and offers her insight on love, dating and relationships on LoveSujeiry.com and TheDatingMix.com. She writers from her own experience as an independent woman exposed to the world of modern-day dating. Her goal is to enable women to value themselves above all else and find happiness in this great big world.

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