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Lessons from ‘Selfie’: 7 Signs That You’re Just a Booty Call

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Lessons from ‘Selfie’: 7 Signs That You’re Just a Booty Call

In “Selfie” Eliza doesn’t know if she’s just a booty call. Don’t fall into the same trap. Here’s 7 signs that he just wants sex.

If I learned anything from the first two episodes of ABC’s “Selfie,” it’s that I may be just as social media obsessed as Eliza Doolittle. Sort of.

I take tons of selfies and I live on Instagram 50 percent of my day, but I don’t avoid human contact. I know that my social media “friends” are not my real friends. Only a handful of those who like my posts know me enough to like me.  Eliza doesn’t seem to grasp this concept. Not until she’s sick with food poisoning and not one of her “friends” sends her as much as a smiley face emoticon. 🙁

Eliza is so disconnected from the world she can’t even see the tall-tell signs that a guy is just using her for a booty call. There are indications, ladies, and Eliza ignores them all. She’s too busy checking her Instagram stats and posting selfie after selfie of outfit after outfit, even during a hospital stay.

ALSO READ: Selfies and Social Media: You Are Better Than A ‘Like’!

Don’t be like Eliza. Let’s put down our phones. Read this post filled with advice and learn the clear signs that he does not want a relationship. Here is how to know when you are just a booty call.

You never see him in daylight.

And 5am doesn’t count! When a man only wants to see you after dark chances are you are just a booty call. That’s because a man who wants to be with you wants to spend time with you day and night.

You’ve never been on a date.

Unless you’re in college, you shouldn’t settle for the “I’m broke” excuse that men dish when they don’t want to take you on a date. Even college men have enough money to treat you to a movie once in a while. So, if you’ve never ever been on a date, you’re just a booty call. A movie night-in doesn’t count!

You don’t know much about each other.

You’re on a first name basis. If you know his last name, you don’t know where he’s from or how many siblings he has or what he wants to do with his life. Your conversations consist of when you’re hooking up and if he can come over. When you try to open up, he kisses you to shut you up. Yup, you’re just a booty call.

You don’t talk on the phone ever.

In “Selfie,” Eliza’s booty call would only text her, and he would only text her one word: sup. If this is how you and your so-called interest communicate, you are most definitely a booty call. A man that wants to get to know a woman will not only text more than a one-syllable word, but he will also call.

You don’t talk about the future.

To him, the future is tomorrow and he only brings it up because he wants to come over…after dark. If he never asks what you’re doing on the weekend, or doesn’t want to talk about where the relationship is headed, you are just…well, you know.

No sleep overs. 

I get needing space, especially en la cama. You want to sprawl your arms and legs and enjoy a good nights rest solo. But if he never sleeps over, or kicks you out (subtly) when you try to snooze by his side, he only wants one thing from you -booty.

He says “we’re just chilling.”

The words “just chilling” are the kiss of death for a future relationship. If this is what he says when you have “the talk,” lower your expectations because you’re  future with this man is bleak. Other phrases that mean the same: just chill, why mess up this good thing we have going?, let’s just go with the flow. All signs point to one thing – you will remain forever his booty call.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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