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​Ooh Ah! 7 Surprising Facts About Orgasms​

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​Ooh Ah! 7 Surprising Facts About Orgasms​

​Ooh Ah! 7 Surprising Facts About Orgasms​

Orgasm is there, waiting to be titillated, but many women don’t even come close.

An orgasm is a wonderful thing. Its sole intention is to make us feel good. Nothing more, nothing less. Orgasms don’t even discriminate. Whether you are Latina, Caucasian, pale-skinned or dark-skinned, short, tall, or small: you can have an orgasm.

Our bodies are built for us to experience the toe-curling pleasure of The Big O, but how many of us have orgasms on a regular basis? According to research, not many.  Although our orgasm is there, waiting to be titillated and released, many women don’t even come close. And it’s just not fair, mujeres. Neither are these surprising facts about orgasms and why there’s such a gap between men and women and how often we cum.

Women are fakers who fake. According to a Lifestyles study, 60% of women have faked an orgasm. And this is no bueno! If we fake it, men will keep using the same moves. They’ll swerve and gyrate the wrong way because they just don’t know any better – or assume that what the did to the last chica will work on you. So speak up! Tell your lover what you like. Shout it at the top of your lungs like you’re finally having that orgasm.

Hookups don’t lead to orgasms. If you’re in a relationship, you’re in luck as 80% of women that climax are coupled up. Women who hook up, however, don’t really get much sexual pleasure from sex. A study shares that only 33 percent of women experience an orgasm during a first-time hookup; but if you sleep with the same guy here and there, your chances for The Big O increase by 50 percent.

Men experience longer orgasms. No matter how good a woman feels after experiencing an orgasm, a man will feel…better. Well, just for a little longer. The Lifestyles study discovered that a man’s orgasm lasts 4 seconds longer than a womans. It doesn’t seem like a long time, but when you’re high off serotonin and oxytocin, a few seconds can feel like a lifetime of pleasure.

Masturbation is awesome. If you don’t know, now you know! That’s because 1 in 2 women admitted that their first orgasm occurred during a masturbation session. I am an advocate for feeling yourself, as Beyonce sings. So do so literally! It not only teaches you about your body, but it also scratches that itch – and it feels damn good when you reach it.

Exercising is key. Now we have another reason besides summer to hit the gym – orgasms! Women who exercise are more prone to orgasm. So pump some iron, run that treadmill, or shake your hips during a zumba workout. Cause you’re going to have great sex.

Men are easy. At least when it comes to having an orgasm. It turns out men just need to rub and tug for 2 minutes or less to cum. Three in 4 men reported that’s how easy it is for them to have an orgasm. Women definitely got the short end of the stick on this one.

Women can always be turned on. There’s this thing called the refractory period, which is a length of time where a man cannot be aroused after orgasm. For about 30 minutes, his body just won’t respond to sexual stimuli. Women, however, don’t have to wait. Like men, we need rest after we orgasm. Unlike me, we can get turned on soon after sex. There’s hope for us yet!

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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