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Where Art Though Orgasms? And Ways to Get Back The Big O

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Where Art Though Orgasms? And Ways to Get Back The Big O

What happens when you lose your orgasm? Sujeiry shares.

I think I’ve lost my orgasm. And I’m not just quoting Samantha Jones! I really do think I lost my orgasm.

How is that possible? That’s what I want to know. Lately, it takes my body much more time and effort (on the man’s part) to take me to a higher place. I want to go to a higher place, dammit! I am 35 – the age of the notorious and desirable sexual peak. I am turned on easily. But a climax? Not so much.

I know what you’re thinking. It’s the man whom I am bedding. Not at all. He’s good. The sex and chemistry is awesome. There’s passion and snap, crackle and pop. We have that fabulous zaa zaa zoo which means my vagina is not settling. It’s me, I tell ya. I think I lost my orgasm.

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I did some research to see if this is possible, and what to do when you can’t reach The Big O. According to Dr. Oz, about 15% of women have never experienced an orgasm. I can say that I have; it’s just missing in action! Because having an orgasm when you’re older isn’t as easy.

This same article states that after the age of 40 women experience more vaginal dryness and a drop in hormone levels. And that’s a problem. Having an orgasm is a “complex dance of physical stimulation and reaction,” Dr. Oz says. Our neither region responds to touch, sending signals to our brain which then lubricates the pepa and pumps blood to the area. Heavy breathing commences and you scream for God Almighty while you climax – if you’re lucky. If you’re in my position, you dream of days when you did orgasm.

It’s been a while.

And that’s another factor for losing the Big Bang. The more sex we have the more likelihood of an orgasm because we are increasing lubrication. If you don’t use your vagina, you may just lose your orgasm.

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I may have to call my friend and get to work.

 

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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