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How to Give Your Partner an Erotic Massage

Ooh la la! Add some spice to your sex life with a seductive touch.

Touch allows us to heal, communicate emotion and offer comfort. Can you imagine what an erotic massage can do for your sex life? Not only do erotic massages add sensuality and care to the act of sex but many of us enjoy a nice, warm massage. Adding erotica is just the right spin on a regular massage; after all, it involves our genitals and erotic stimulation. Here are some basic tips and techniques to giving an erotic massages.

Take your time. 

Do not race through a massage. Linger over each body part so he fully savors the sensations. Also, do not race to orgasm. Erotic massage is about dragging out the touch and appreciating every inch of skin.

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Use your tongue.

Using your tongue as a massage tool is very seductive. Just make sure to be consistent with your licks. It will help soothe your partner, and he will anticipate the pleasure if you repeat strokes between five to a dozen times.

Massage the genitals.

Massaging the genitals is a huge part of erotic massage. Giving attention to his shaft and scrotum during a full body massage will drive him wild. A great technique you can use is to hold the shaft with one hand and stroke the penis upward, while groping his balls and gently playing with them. Always remember to be very gentle with his private parts. And, unless he asks for it, do not startle him with hot stones or tingling oils!

Work on other body parts. 

There are other parts of the body that are filled with nerves and can be stimulated erotically. Try gently tracing your partners’ ears with the tip of your tongue and nibbling on his earlobes. Also, the back of the knees and inner thighs can be highly pleasurable spots for both men and women. Lightly rub and lick the back of the knees and firmly grasp the upper inner thighs. You can also rub and kiss your partners’ neck, suckle on his toes, glide your fingers up and down the sides of his body, grope his buttocks, and massage his head. I personally love to be caressed from my shoulder to the nape of my neck.

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Overall, erotic massage is a great way to feel connected with your significant other on a deeper sexual level. Try this great style of foreplay as soon as possible. All you need to do is find a calm place, dim the lights, get some nice oils and massage away.

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Samantha Williams

Samantha Williams is a bright, upcoming writer with a key insight on the dynamics of relationships. She is well-versed in Sexology and posses an innately rich writing style. Her extensive knowledge of psychology allows her to address the real issues facing today's society, especially women. Her unique talents translate into a writing style that is simultaneously compassionate and edgy. Sam is truly wise beyond her years and yearns to expose as many women as she can to their inner potential.

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