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Big Spoon or Little Spoon? Post Sex Cuddling Affects Couples

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Big Spoon or Little Spoon? Post Sex Cuddling Affects Couples

How does post sex cuddling affect couples and relationships? Choose big spoon or little spoon! A new study gives us all the answers.

I’ve always been terrified of the King size bed. Unless you’re a 500-pound man, its enormity seems unnecessary. Mostly, my disdain comes from its width. If I lay next to my man on a King, I’d feel like he were cities away. We already have a commuter relationship; he lives in Long Island and I currently reside in Manhattan in little Dominican Land (Washington Heights for those who don’t speak Nueva Yol). Why would I want to sleep with my man and feel like he’s still in Long Island?!

I rather feel him close. I want to cuddle after sex. Not only because I’m an affectionate and extra loving person, specifically towards him, but also because cuddling is good for relationships and our sex lives.

A new study conducted in Toronto proves that couples who cuddle more after sex feel more satisfied with their sex lives. Overall, they had better relationships. Shockingly, foreplay and the duration of getting it on doesn’t play a big role in relationship satisfaction. That’s great news. Who wants to get it on all night long? Don’t believe the love songs!

Researchers also discovered that couples that spend more time kissing, cuddling, spooning, caressing or expressing how much they love each other are happier overall with their partner – in and out of the bedroom. And it ain’t just a woman thang! Affection post-sex also makes men happier in relationships.

ALSO READ: 5 Apps to Spice Up the Romance in Your Relationship

So exchange that King for a Queen and get a little closer. Be the big spoon or the little spoon! It may make your relationship that much yummier.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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