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Remembering Dry Humping: Should We Bring It Back?

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Remembering Dry Humping: Should We Bring It Back?

Grinding crotches (with clothes on) was the move. Should couples bring back dry humping?

“So I climbed on top of Carlos and started rubbing my crotch all over him.”

That’s what my friend told me back in junior high. While we watched Madonna videos after school in her living room, my much more experienced friend introduced me to dry humping.

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What’s dry humping? Oh, just what virgins and teenage girls do when they first begin sexually experimenting. With clothes on, you rub, rub, rub groins and hopefully get a rise out of the sails. In other words, he gets a boner. If you’re lucky, you can even orgasm. My friend, Lucky, 25, admitted to dry humping and experiencing the Big O time and again.

“My freshman year in college I got the the guy that everyone wanted and we were making out ,” she recalled, “and I was perfectly fine with the dry humping since I was a virgin.” Although he wasn’t having the no sex rule, she “pretty much came just off dry humping.” Now, no longer a virgin, Lucky believes that dry humping is still fun. “Shit, I still do it,” she admitted when asked about dry humping her boyfriend.

Another friend who is married admitted to grinding crotch to crotch with her husband. “It’s not an every occasion thing,” she said with a laugh. But, it happens!

Do you still dry hump? Should you? You know, it’s a part of foreplay. Although I admit that due to lack of time we just jump into sex, dry humping is a still great way to arouse your man. When should you dry hump?

1. When you are in the early stages of a relationship. And you don’t want to knock boots just yet.

2. When you want to tease a guy. I don’t mean to give him blue balls (unless he likes that). Rub your crotch against his to get him hard as an alternative to, let’s say, jerking him off.

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3. When you’re laying on the couch. If you’re anything like me, you sometimes get horny in the middle of the day while watching good TV. You eye your guy and think, why not? The thing is unless you have a sectional sofas are tiny. That’s when a good dry humping session is in order. Climb on top of him like my good friend did to Carlos, swerve those hips and rock his pecker, and then take it to the bedroom (or the living room floor) to finish the job.

In other words, don’t forget to #DryHump!

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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