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What Men Really Want from Women on a First Date

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What Men Really Want from Women on a First Date

What do men want women to do on a first date? Here’s some dating advice for single women.

According to my boyfriend, men are pretty simple. They have their moments of moodiness (like male PMS) and can be just as sensitive as us chicas, but, for the most part, they desire a life without drama. We do too, right? Not always. Let’s face it: sometimes women want to stir things up in a relationship. We get jealous and want him to get jealous, and we fuss about dishes, his mama, the remote control, and compliments — or lack there of.

A man’s need for simplicity is even more apparent at first greet. He checks you out, thinks you’re bella, digs your personality and the way you carry yourself, y ya — he’s ready to take you out on a first date. So let us follow their lead. When out on a first date with an hombre, take note of the things he wants you to do, and give in just a little.

Have Sex

Ok, ok, maybe you don’t make it that easy. I personally believe in playing hard to get for a little while. However, men love it when women throw the rules out the window, and do what they want to do – that includes doing them. If your libido is urging you to go for it, he’s going to be a happy guy!

PLUS: Why Women Should Date Multiple People Just Like Men

Kiss him.

If having sex on the first date is a bit much for you and your vagina, many men will happily settle for a kiss. My boyfriend still teases me because I didn’t kiss him on our first date, even though I really wanted to. What can I say? He made me giddy! And so I nervously ran away like a schoolgirl who just punched her crush on the arm. Don’t do what I did; kiss him if you like him. He wants you to. Read the rest of the tips on!

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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