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5 Things to Do When Your Man is Unemployed

He’s been home all day watching Maury Povich while you’re busting your ass at a 9-5.

According to the US Department of Labor, the current unemployment rate is 5.0 percent. This means that approximately 7.9 million people are unemployed in the USA – and your man may be one of them.

The last thing a woman wants is to walk through the door after a long day of work to hear her man shout, “I knew he was the father!”  He’s been home all day watching Maury Povich while you’re busting your ass at a 9-5. But, this isn’t always the case. Your man might have fallen on hard times. As a woman this puts the burden on you. You feel the financial strain and are constantly stressed. You are now the sole source of income for your family, and it can be downright scary.

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As difficult as things are when your man in unemployed, you still need to build your partner up – not tear him down. Here are some tips on how to keep your relationship healthy and help your man find a J-O-B.

Become his biggest advocate.

It can be extremely difficult on a man when he suddenly finds himself unemployed. Men like to provide. Many also feel it defines them as a man. So when you pay all of the bills, he might feel you’re taking away from his manhood. Assure him that the situation is temporary. Let him know you have faith in him and you are committed to helping him find a new job.

Help him improve his resume.

Take a peek at his resume. If he doesn’t have one, help him create one. There are also many websites that provide professional, resume writing services for a fee. Plus, there are lots of free sample resumes online for almost any field. You can follow the format and help your man build a stellar resume.

Assist him on his search.

Two sets of eyes are better than one. This holds true for this situation. With sites like LinkedIn, Indeed and many others, it’s very simple to search through hundreds of jobs. However, there are so many jobs listed that it can become overwhelming. You should tackle this task as a team.

Do not leave him a to-do list.

It is important to remember that your man has one goal and that is finding a job. You don’t want to discourage him from looking for a job by assigning him household chores. If you need something done, simply ask. But, excessive to-do lists will not help the situation. You don’t want to turn your working man into a housewife.

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Make time for your relationship.

Do not talk non-stop about his job search. This is a sensitive subject matter, and it can make or break a couple. Also, remember to take time away from the job search. Although you are on a budget, take advantage of movie nights with lots of cuddling, walks or something positive that you both enjoy.

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Tabitha Bauman

Living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Tabitha is a self-proclaimed free spirit who travels extensively throughout the USA. She has a bold writing style and offers her insight on love, dating and relationships on and She writers from her own experience as an independent woman exposed to the world of modern-day dating. Her goal is to enable women to value themselves above all else and find happiness in this great big world.


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