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I’ve Become The Girl Who Just Wants to Be With Her Man

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I’ve Become The Girl Who Just Wants to Be With Her Man

What happens when you are in love? You may become the girl who always wants to be with her man.

It’s Sunday and I promised my friend that I’d go visit her and her baby. Again. Instead of hauling ass to NYC, I remain huddled under covers, snuggling up to my man’s warmth.

“Morning, boo,” I whisper sleepily. It’s the only time of day where I don’t speak like a typical Dominican. That’s loudly. He caresses my face. I ain’t going anywhere, I think.

We spend the day indoors, watching football (yes, I do that now) and eating ice cream. He has a stash of chocolate eclairs just for me. I cook dinner as I often do. This time I make potatoes and baked chicken. And to his red futon we go, where we spend the afternoon and evening, giggling, cuddling, and stealing kisses while rooting for the NY Giants, although they’re on a losing streak.

So I don’t see my friend or her newborn baby. I don’t text her to cancel. I choose to be that girl, the one who hibernates with her significant other on a cold winter night. Over the last 5 months, I’ve chosen to be that girl and spend my weekends with Boo in Long Island. This isn’t the first time I’ve “forgotten” to text a friend when we had plans. This isn’t the first time I’ve canceled.

And I feel bad. I do. I text my friend an apology 24 hours later. I am honest. I wanted to spend the weekend with Boo, I say. She understands because she knows this is what it feels like to be in love. “That is what made this baby girl,” she replies and sends along a photo of her newborn.

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Yes, this is what it feels like to be in love. This is why I am that girl. The one that I once disliked and didn’t understand. The one that I made fun of for being all about her man. The one that angered me because she flaked one too many times. The one that I envied because I desired to feel the same reciprocal love that she felt in her relationship. I am now that girl, and I embrace her gladly.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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