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Talk Dirty to Me…in Spanish! Here’s How to Do It

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Talk Dirty to Me…in Spanish! Here’s How to Do It

Scream Ay Papi and then some. Here’s how to talk dirty to your guy in Spanish.

You’re in the heat of passion: He’s licking your nipples, nibbling on your lower lip, pinching your thighs, booty, and waist, and he whispers, “Say something in Spanish.” If you’re a native English speaker like me, you may do a double take. I only speak Spanish to Mami, and I don’t want to think about that (or her) mid thrust!

Still, you — I — go with it. If he wants you to talk dirty to him in Spanish, the least you can do is give it a try. So what do you say? What words and phrases in español will turn him on?

Here’s how to dirty it in up in the bedroom con tu lengua:

Ay Papi!

That’s how you start it off. There’s just something about the word “papi” that drives men wild. I don’t get it, but those two little paternal words get it up. So abandon your Daddy issues — there’s a new papi in your life, and he’s in between your legs.

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Damelo duro.

Call this the next level of Spanish-language dirty talk. While you’re screaming, “Ay Papi!” he’ll get excited and much more passionate. As his thrusts deepen and speed up, that’s when you purr, “Damelo duro.” He’ll hit it rough all right, so make sure you can take it before you holler it. Read the rest on

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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