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5 Signs You’re Falling for Your Male BFF

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5 Signs You’re Falling for Your Male BFF

You look at your guy BFF and…swoon! You might be in love, gurl. And other signs.

Over the years I’ve had many male friends. Some of these friendships started off as crushes, and then for one reason or another we entered that dreaded Friend Zone. Still, there’s often that one special guy friend that you can’t stop thinking about in a romantic way.

PLUS: Sorry Not Sorry! A Letter to the Guys I’ve Friend-Zoned

It happened to me. I fell in love with my best friend. I am peaceful and content in his presence. I feel complete when he is around me. I miss him on days when I don’t see him. I find myself including him in my future plans. I want him to go on adventures with me and see what this world has to offer. I could easily do all of these things alone or with someone else, but I would much rather be with him.

Sound familiar? If so, you just might have fallen for your male BFF. Here are some signs:

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Jealous of other women.

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I didn't realize I was jealous until one night when another girl picked him up at my house. Being the great BFF that I am, I made sure his hair looked great. He left with her and BAM! There it was - jealousy. It was a terrible feeling. He chose to spend his time with someone other than me, I thought. If you're feeling the same way, that's a clear sign that you have feelings for your guy friend.  Photo Credit:

Tabitha Bauman

Living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Tabitha is a self-proclaimed free spirit who travels extensively throughout the USA. She has a bold writing style and offers her insight on love, dating and relationships on and She writers from her own experience as an independent woman exposed to the world of modern-day dating. Her goal is to enable women to value themselves above all else and find happiness in this great big world.


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