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Sexting and Nudes: How to Keep Your Guy Thinking About You

If you want to get him hot, send a sext. Here’s why and how to keep him thinking of you.

Have you ever considered bringing someone to a higher state of arousal through your impressive, explicit verbal skills or obscene photographic angles of your nude body? I’m talking about sexting, it’s the act of our generation. Some of us may still be unaccustomed to receiving and sending sexts. However, using it with your partner can offer an intense and passionate charge to sexual encounters. The next time you take a shower, take a provocative foggy mirror nude and send it to your boo. He’ll be thinking of you all day.

Get Him Home From Work Early

Sending sexy messages and pictures throughout the day can lead to an enjoyable session of intense after-work sex. In fact, researchers at the University of Texas Medical Branch at Galveston say that in many cases sexting precedes sexual intercourse. Send him messages to remind him whats waiting for him at home. When he checks his phone on his lunch break, and opens your text that says, “I want to feel you inside of me,” he will get hard as a rock. His horny reply will moisten your panties, and in no time you will hear his car pulling up in the driveway.

Sext to Destress

A few years ago, my family from out of town was staying with me for Thanksgiving, which meant my partner couldn’t sleepover. This however turned out to be a blessing in disguise. We started exchanging sexy pictures and writing erotic messages describing what we wanted to do to each other. Receiving a simple text like, “I can’t wait to taste you,” while I was cleaning up after my family would set me on fire. I would run to the nearest bathroom, put on lip gloss, and reply with a selfie sticking my tongue out. I felt so aroused. This warm feeling helped me to deal with my obnoxious family members with ease.

Use Snapchat

If you are not comfortable sending a picture knowing that the other person may revisit it all day, and save it forever, use the app Snapchat. It allows you to send pictures and texts but they can only be viewed for a short period of time. You can change the settings to make sure the booty pic you sent will disappear after 5 seconds. Being able to send a private picture to your lover that will self-destruct in a matter of seconds seems to be the safest way to sext.

Use Sexy Words

Sending a sexy picture is one thing, writing up a sexy message is another. Many people worry they might say something that doesn’t make sense or sounds too silly and might even kill the mood. A great way to practice is coming up with and using hot vocabulary while masturbating. From past sexual escapades, to stories you’ve read in magazines, to remembering the intimate details of making love to your partner, you have plenty of recoverable events to refer to. Build up anticipation before you get straight to the descriptions of your throbbing lady parts. You can either start off with soft-core textual role play, or get straight to it and send a text with raunchy details of a past sexual encounter you shared together. “Remember when I gave you head during The Hunger Games because we had the theater to ourselves?”. This is a great example of how to start a steamy conversation.

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Whether you write up and send stimulating texts, sexy pictures of yourself, or use Snapchat, you should make sexting a daily routine. It will add an extra ‘oomph’ to your relationship, keep your partner stimulated, and make sex that much hotter.

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Samantha Williams

Samantha Williams is a bright, upcoming writer with a key insight on the dynamics of relationships. She is well-versed in Sexology and posses an innately rich writing style. Her extensive knowledge of psychology allows her to address the real issues facing today's society, especially women. Her unique talents translate into a writing style that is simultaneously compassionate and edgy. Sam is truly wise beyond her years and yearns to expose as many women as she can to their inner potential.


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