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Brr! The Right and Wrong Guy to Bed During Cuffing Season

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Brr! The Right and Wrong Guy to Bed During Cuffing Season

It’s cold outside so it’s cuffing season! Here are the right and wrong guys to bed at winter.

No one wants to hang out and chill during winter months. Have you felt the wind chill lately? Let’s not forget how hard it is to hobble around in heels at 2am. I don’t want to make love in the club (and stand on line to get in the club!)! I just want to watch movies on Netflix with Boo.

But what if you don’t have a man to stay in with? Cuffing season is upon us which means it’s time to find a partner to snuggle with. Most single gals and guys know the deal. Cause (as Jodeci once sang) when it’s cold outside no one wants to be lonely! But who’s the right guy for the winters months? I’ll tell ya.

1. A Friend with Benefits

A friends with benefits is someone you already know and have a sexual relationship with. This guy is the perfect guy to ride during cuffing season. Just make sure to go back to “just friends” when the short shorts come out of for summer.

2. A Friend of a Friend of a Friend

Of a friend! You know him, which is great. A one night stand usually lasts a few hours (if you’re lucky). And you can befriend the friend of a friend during social gatherings. Flirt with him and show him you are available. Ask him over to your place. He’ll be yours for winter in no time.

3. Mr. International

He’s only here for winter because he works in the US and Paris. He is an international student, or he’s a world traveler that is here on vacation. This guy makes for a perfect cuffing partner. He won’t be here long so enjoy him while you can. Who knows? You may even get a free trip out of your winter romp.

Now, please avoid the following men unless you want to be cuffed…forever!

1. The Relationship Guy

This guy will want to be around for more than a season. Unless you want to be in a relationship, I suggest keeping him at a distance.

ALSO READ: 8 Different Relationship Labels and What They Mean

2. The Unemployed

An unemployed guy will have so much time on his hands that he may never leave your side. Sure, he will be at your beckon call, but he may stay over even when you don’t want him to. Or when you’re not home cause you’re working.

3. The Single Dad

Let’s face it – a single dad will only have time when he doesn’t have his kid(s). This temporary relationship will be more on his time than your time. Plus, if he gets attached he may want you to play the role of mommy. And that role lasts a lifetime. Next!

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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