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POF Dishes on Frisky Single Behavior During The Holidays


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POF Dishes on Frisky Single Behavior During The Holidays

Single during the holiday season? Watch your frisky behavior! According to PlentyOfFish, single men and women contact exes and then some during holiday time.

POF LOGO NEWSingle during the holidays? Maybe you’ll just get frisky.

Being single during the holiday season can lead to a deep depression (why me?!!!!), or risky behavior. I remember doing the latter. When the clock struck 12 in 2004, I slept with a man I had been dating for a week. I also invited said man to my family’s New Years Eve party. While there, he met my mother, brother, sister, and even my six uncles. They all swore he was my future husband. It makes sense. A man who meets my entire family should be husband material.

Alas, me and my New Years’ bang ended our affair three months later. I still can’t believe how foolish I was. But the holiday spirit does something to a single gal. And PlentyOfFish has proof. They conducted a survey of over 9,000 American and Canadian singles between the ages of 20 and 40 and gained some insight into what singles are really up to this holiday season.

The survey asked questions on what singles “think” versus what they “do” during the holidays regarding relationships. The questions ranged from issues with sexting, putting on holiday weight, and even breakups. And, of course, they delved into affairs and sexy romps.

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The results weren’t surprising. Whether it’s finding new love or evaluating their current relationship, singles think about love a lot more during the holiday season. I know I do. As soon as it gets cold outside, I wish I had a man to snuggle with under the covers. Gift exchange is no fun either. Who’s going to surprise me with a Tiffany necklace? No one!

POF also discovered that singles are a little more bold and promiscuous during the holiday season. Here are some stats that show how frisky y’all get!

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26% of singles have slept with an ex over the holidays. And more women plan to meet up with their exes over the holidays. Photo Credit: Flickr Creative Commons.

What’s the friskiest thing you’ve done during the holiday season? Share your story!

Photo Credit: Plenty of Fish.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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