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Masturbating: The Difference Between Women and Men

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Masturbating: The Difference Between Women and Men

Sujeiry Masturbating is a necessary and amazing sport. I, myself, am a pro. Started at JV and went straight to Varsity. Only takes me 3-5 minutes to orgasm, and that’s just with my fingertips on my clitoris.

But maybe that’s just me.

According to a study, only 40% of women admitted to masturbating in 2010. This number may be skewed as not all women are as open as the 1st Lady of Love. However, I have encountered women who don’t dare touch themselves for fear of God or shame. I remember meeting a young gringita at Shecky’s Girls Night Out who was so uncomfortable with the topic of sex, she admitted to never masturbating, and in turn, never enjoying sex. She told me she didn’t know what she liked and asked me for advice on what to do to improve her sex life.  I told her the truth, Sujeiry style: Buy yourself a small, one speed vibrator like the Velvet Pleasure and go to town on your pepa™! Start slow and steady so you can become comfortable with your body. Love yourself and learn to find your key spots. And no big dildos until you’ve practiced, practiced, practiced!

She was very pleased with my advice and thanked me. I’m always glad to help a pepa™ in need!

Now how about men? The same study states that 60% of men masturbated in 2010. I think that number may be more like 99.9%!  No, I’m sure not all men masturbate. Some men don’t get off through masturbation while others jerk themselves off until peeling (ouch!).  I’ve also read that many men need a visual in order to climax while masturbating. They watch pornography or fantasize about women. It can be the bodacious woman who works in the bodega or the coworker whose boobs bounce when walking into the conference room. Or it can be a politician, lets say, Sarah Palin?

I only mention the conservative, reality TV “politician” because Tracy Morgan recently commented on her masturbating potential when interviewed by Charles Barkley. He was asked,  “Tina Fey or Sarah Palin?” And this is what Tracy the Crazy had to say:

Comes to show that men can truly masturbate to any woman, no matter how obnoxious, idiotic, or delusional. Now off I go to wash that image from my head. It may haunt me at night and my pepa™ will be very disappointed!

What do you think about masturbation? What do you think about Tracy Morgan’s comment about Sarah Palin? Leave us a comment below!

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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