I haven’t always been open about what I feel, emotionally and down in my neither region. A virgin till 23, my pepa once gasped at the thought of sexual exploration. Then something happened. I masturbated. And, oh, how I opened up to the possibilities of sexual gratification!
Still, with every relationship I learn something new about my body. We start a new sexual relationship with someone we love (or not) and it’s like riding a bicicle for the first time. Does he like to be touched there? Does she like to be kissed softly or with fierce aggression? Is that too much tongue, too little tongue, or does he not like tongue at all?! It’s no wonder I still feel shy when having sex. It takes some time to get in my groove and really open up to a new partner so I can connect and reach that big O!
That is my 2013 (sexual) resolution – to be more vulnerable when in the throws of passion.
So, how can we overcome sexual shyness? I may be a relationship expert but sexpert I am not. That’s why I am happy to share these sex tips by Dr. Yvonne Fullbright.
Tip 1: Analyze what’s holding you back to know what you need to have a great sex life.
As I always say, you have to know yourself first and foremost! This especially applies to sex. If you don’t know what feels good and what’s just awful, how will you ever communicate with your partner and enjoy sex?
Tip 2: Boost your body image. Start feeling better about yourself with exercise, healthy meals, and shutting down negative self-talk.
If we don’t feel attractive we usually don’t want anyone to see us naked. I just don’t know anyone who wants to try the Karma Sutra if they don’t feel sexy. That’s why, as Dr. Yvonne stated in the tip, taking care of you is essential. Stop complaining about how you look and take action to better yourself inside and out!
Tip 3: Educate yourself on techniques, erogenous zones and modes of seduction.
They say reading is fundamental so why not pick up a sexy book that can teach you a few tricks? There are so many great books (with pictures!) that can teach new techniques, like giving a better blowjob or new exciting positions. Knowledge is definitely power!
Here’s hoping to great sex in 2013! If you need more sex tips or have a specific sex question, you can Ask Dr.Yvonne. You also have the chance to win free Astroglide samples. If interested, enter the giveaway!
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