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The Negative Effects of Dating Hot Men

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The Negative Effects of Dating Hot Men

Hot MenI have a really bad habit of dating really hot men. It’s torture, I know, because really hot men know their hotness meter. They stare at themselves in the mirror and know, that if measured by the heat index, they’d sizzle, reaching a sweaty 105 degrees Fahrenheit. And that’s just in the morning, before they’ve showered, brushed, or cleaned out their eye boogies!

Aside from their conceit, really hot men also expect us to be really hot…always. Don’t let that man catch you in rolos or with chancletas. As their ladies, we must prim and press without their knowledge. Our hair just glistens naturally, never a frizz in sight! Our feet were meant to walk in 4-inch heels, never a bunion in sight! As for the actual relationship, prepare to fight! Women seek out handsome men due for their good genes, therefore there is competition among women. And we can’t keep our hot men locked up forever.

According to a study, hot men also make really bad husbands due to their mating strategies. Men who are less attractive seek long-term mates, stay with their partner, and invest in their relationship, including the lives of their children. This strategy, called the “Dad Strategy,” is quiet the opposite of the “Cad Strategy,” where hot men seek a large number of short-term mates without investing in any of the resulting offspring.

So ladies, it seems that if we want a committed, consistent, and responsible husband we must bid hot men adieu. Hot men just have too many opportunities for short-tern mating. They turn and there’s a pepa™ here, pepa™ there, pepapepa™ everywhere.

And that’s enough to break this pepas™ hot man habit.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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