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First Date 911! 5 Ways to Show Him You’re Not Interested

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First Date 911! 5 Ways to Show Him You’re Not Interested

What happens when you’re on a terrible first date? You try to hint that you’re just not that into him. Here’s dating advice to show a guy you’re not interested.

So I went on a first date last night. I met the guy on and had hopes that we would connect. But there was no connection! No chemistry. No tickling of my pepa. Nada. Minutes in and I was hatching up an escape plan.

But he didn’t get it. He still talked about our next date and how “his focus was on me.” If there were an alarm I would have pulled it and screamed, “Mayday! Mayday!” Alas, I had to stick it through. Cause he was my ride. And I didn’t want to hurt my chauffeur’s feelings.

[ALSO READ: Ask Sujeiry: How Do I Let My CoWorker Know I’m Interested?]

I did try everything (and I mean everything) to get him to understand this simple statement: I’m just not that into you. Here are five ways to show him you’re not interested when on a first date. Hopefully it works better for you!

Talk About Your Ex

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No one wants to hear about a past love or heart break. If you talk about your ex he will assume you are not over him. And no one wants to date someone who is pining over someone else. Exactly! Photo Credit: Flickr Creative Commons.


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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