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How to Find Closure After He Ghosts On Your Relationship

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How to Find Closure After He Ghosts On Your Relationship

He hasn’t contacted you. Perhaps he was struck in the head and now has amnesia? Nope.

‘Ghosting’ is the absolute worst way for a guy to exit your life. I know from personal experience how bad this one can hurt. I was dating a guy for a few months. He was there one minute and gone the next. He stopped returning texts and completely disappeared. It was like the scene in Twilight: Breaking Dawn where Edward ghosts on Bella to protect her, and she sits by her window crying for months.

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In my case he was just an asshole. He wasn’t protecting me, he was leaving me. Like Bella, I sat by my window and cried because I didn’t know what the fuck happened. Perhaps he was robbed, his phone stolen, and he was struck in the head and now had amnesia. I pictured him wandering around a hospital, trying to find me. Desperate, I checked his social media. He was alive and well!

The truth about ghosting is that you’re left without closure. It’s so much easier when a real man breaks up with you and tells you he doesn’t want to be with you. You can move on. If a dude disappears, you are stuck in purgatory waiting to hear something. Here are some tips on giving yourself closure when a man ghosts on you and your relationship.

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He ghosted on you. He thinks you aren't even worthy of an explanation. Guess what? He's no longer worthy of your attention. No more texts to this asshole. Let him wonder where you went. Flickr: Huffstutterrobertl.

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Tabitha Bauman

Living in the suburbs of Philadelphia, Tabitha is a self-proclaimed free spirit who travels extensively throughout the USA. She has a bold writing style and offers her insight on love, dating and relationships on and She writers from her own experience as an independent woman exposed to the world of modern-day dating. Her goal is to enable women to value themselves above all else and find happiness in this great big world.


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