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Have Faith! How I Manifested Committed Love

Sujeiry by Chelsea Piers Water Front
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Have Faith! How I Manifested Committed Love

It’s all been such a blessing. And I know it’s because I have faith in God and his timing.

2014 will be different. I know it. I feel it. Yes, I say it every new year, but this time I believe it! I am welcoming new love in the new year. I am not holding back.

I wrote this very statement at the end of 2014, right before the New Year. And  everything that I stated then has manifested.

In 2014, I met Boo. We began dating in the spring and were enamored and committed to one another soon after. In 2015, we moved in together – just a year shy of our one-year anniversary. In September 2015, we began trying for a baby. The next month I was pregnant!

On Christmas Day at midnight, Boo surprised me with a beautiful letter from my baby boy. The last page of the letter said, “Mommy, will you marry my Daddy?” I said yes!

It has all happened so fast. It’s all been such a blessing – one I was sure would arrive in due time. And I know it’s because I have faith in God and his timing. I haven’t always been patient. I haven’t always followed my heart and my gut. I haven’t always made the right choices; many of them were based on fear of abandonment, failure and not being enough. But, at the end of every heartbreak, broken relationship and moment of loneliness, I knew that I made the right choice.

I never once doubted that God would bring me my love.

Try as I may to be “less picky” and stick to a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship (being single wasn’t always fun for me) I just couldn’t shake the feeling that the reciprocal, consistent, dynamic and loving long-term relationship I craved was within reach. I could not give up or settle for less that I desired and deserved. As Mami said when I told her of our engagement, “No te desesperastes y llego tu amor.

Now, I say the same to all of you: when manifesting new love do not despair. Desperation only leads to a relationship that temporarily fulfills the loneliness. You desire and deserve so much more than that. We all do.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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