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The Hookup: Soulmates?

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The Hookup: Soulmates?

I recently watched one of my favorite Sex and the City episodes via rerun extraordinaire, TBS. Carrie sat perched on her chair, her arms extended and fingers tapping away on her Mac, and she questioned the idea of soulmates. Does everyone have a soulmate, and if so is it about timing? What happens if we meet our soulmate and it doesn’t work? Did we miss our one shot at true love or will another soulmate come strolling around the next corner?

Like Carrie, these questions have often plagued me, especially after the ending of me and Mr. G. I was convinced he was my soulmate, the man I would marry and was meant for, but Mr. G remains with his girlfriend and we are no longer in contact.

So what was it that I felt for Mr. G? What do I feel for Mr. G now? My feelings have definitely not extinguished. In fact, it guilt’s me to admit I still think about being his girlfriend and potentially his wife. No Sex and the City episodes have changed my hearts mind. Neither Carrie, Charlotte, Samantha or Miranda have lifted the heavy, sorrowful burden of wanting something that is currently unavailable.

So are me and Mr. G meant to be? As days turn to weeks and weeks to months, I still don’t know. And so I can’t help but wonder what will be of my love, my soulmate.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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