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Love and Life: Is Timing Truly Everything?

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Love and Life: Is Timing Truly Everything?

When faced with hesitation regarding love and life, there is always a reason and a lesson. Timing is truly everything. Some advice on understanding the concept.

You’ve been chasing something so bad that you’re exhausted. So much so that you stop chasing, and the opportunity you’ve chased arises but you don’t know if you want it anymore, or at all.

Does that sound at all familiar? It does for me. I just felt this way weeks ago when I was presented with another TV project. I was hesitant and the hesitation was felt by those who reached out with the opportunity. It’s energy, after all. Plus, life got in the way and the timing of it was just terrible. My abuelo was here from the Dominican Republic and is suffering from dementia. He was in the hospital for a week and my family was a mess. So, yes, timing makes a difference.

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That makes me wonder: if timing is off, does that mean that the love, career, relationship, or whatever you’ve craved for so long isn’t for you? Maybe that one thing wasn’t. I’d like to think that way. Maybe relationships and gigs and certain friendships present themselves to bring us closer to what makes us happier. But he or she or it in itself won’t fulfill us.

I am not sure where I stand now with this new potential TV project. It is now a waiting game, as it often is in this biz. They like me but many have in the past. Now it’s about what comes to fruition.

All I know is that what will be, will be. Fortunately, I know that I will be happy regardless. I didn’t always feel that way. And so this newfound sense of peace feels really good.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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