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Gotta Big Ass? It Doesn’t Make You More Attractive to Men

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Gotta Big Ass? It Doesn’t Make You More Attractive to Men

I like big butts and I cannot lie! Or not? A study discovers that big booties ain’t all that.

When I was younger my booty was not as round or big as I liked. Why would a teenager want a juicy derriere? In the Latino culture, particularly the Dominican culture, a fine ass trumps a beautiful face and a great personality. I wanted boys to be into me, but many of the boys I liked desired the chica with the fat ass. They’d check her out when she’d strut by and ignore my plancha of an ass. Yes, my booty was as flat as an ironing board.

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Ok, maybe I’m exaggeration. My booty was more like a mound. Still, I wanted it poke out like the highest peak of the biggest mountain!

Lucky for me, my Dominican genes kicked in with age and my ass grew accordingly. Thing is my ass doesn’t make me more attractive to men – that’s according to a study published in the journal of Evolution & Human Behavior. Yes, a woman with a large patras appeals to men due to the tie to fertility and reproduction, but attraction doesn’t just stem from body parts. We have to look at the whole package. That’s personality, energy and yes, a pretty face.

The study even measured the attractiveness of movement. Turns out that they way you move can be a huge turn on (or off) to men. So, strut down the street like it’s a catwalk. Whether you have a big ass or small ass, move with confidence. Cause in the end that’s what makes you really fine.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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