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Baby on the Brain! 7 Things to Savor Before Becoming a Mom

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Baby on the Brain! 7 Things to Savor Before Becoming a Mom

Soon to be moms sacrifice many joys in life – like sleep! Savor these things before mommyhood.

I have baby fever. I have baby on the brain and I can’t wait to start trying with Boo.

My innate desire for a baby almost happened overnight. I always said I wanted to have a baby and to be a mom, but I was also scared to take that step. Just a few weeks ago I slightly panicked when my period was late. Then I went to South Carolina to spend time with my niece, Nila, who is a precious, smart and hilarious 4 year old. While down south, I watched her ballet recital. As soon as the Baby Ballerinas took the stage, my heart melted and my ovaries screamed (all together now):


So now I am ready. Actually, no, I’m not, but will I ever be? I have discussed this with various moms and they all tell me the same thing, “you will never be fully ready to be a mom,” and “no matter how much money or how great your relationship being a mom is scary.” And don’t get me started on labor. I may never have a baby if I think of the pain.

PLUS: 7 Annoying Things I Won’t Do As a Mom (Or Try Not To Do)

Still, I am excited to embark on the journey of mommyhood. But first, I need to give up some things. I know that my life will change completely, and that includes sacrificing things that I enjoy. So, if you have baby on the brain, join me in savoring the following before becoming a mom. I will miss thee, red wine!

Red Red Wine

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And all things alcohol. When pregnant, drinking is off limits. For almost a year, I will be parched. I won't be able to watch "Scandal" with a bottle of red. How will I commiserate with Olivia Pope?! Damn, damn, damn.

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