Some men and women think that foreplay is a waste of time, and prefer to go straight to sex. They couldn’t be more wrong! Foreplay is all about building pleasure until you can’t take it anymore. Foreplay not only turns us on, but it also helps lubricate our vagina, making it that much easier for him to slide right in.
What does it do for men? So much. Yes, men need foreplay too. Personally, I have noticed that sex is different depending on whether my partner and I engage in foreplay or not. Usually when we engage in foreplay he ends up harder than ever. And that makes me very happy.
How can you switch up foreplay so sex is that much better? By following these sex tips and foreplay techniques to turn him on.
Massaging techniques are perfect for foreplay.
Touch is very important in any sexual encounter. So get naked and touch each other. Start with his ears, rubbing his earlobes softly, then go down his back with your fingertips. Push your thumbs into the middle of his back and upper neck. This will release any tension that he is carrying.
When you see that he is stimulated (he will be standing at attention) slowly caress his body and move your hands toward his genitals.
Lick him up and down.
Your mouth can create tantalizing sensations. Use your tongue to trace the veins on his arms up to his neck and lick his earlobes. He’ll tremble and beg for more.
Don’t just make out. Switch it up. Create a rhythmic pattern where your tongues intertwine and reach deeper into each other.
Tease your man and mean it.
Teasing is the best way to control and pleasure your partner. Touch him, kiss him, kiss on him, and make him feel like a King. Use your tongue and lick his neck and trace the sides of his groin. Talk dirty to him. Whisper in his ear, “quiere mi lengua papi?” and mean it.
So, ladies, don’t skip over foreplay. Instead, give him as much attention as he gives you.