Ay, el divorcio! No woman wants to walk down the aisle to end up in a court of law. Mediation can be a bitch and so can letting go of a relationship and partnership. Your hopes and dreams are dashed; your bitter over the breakup; and you might have to split your hard-earned cash – and pay alimony!
Breathe. There is a way to have a stress-free divorce – really! Joryn Jenkins, an attorney with 35 years of expereince that focuses on courtless divorce, and author of War or Peace: Avoid The Destruction of Divorce Court, shares seven tips on how to have a much smoother divorce.
Don't be extra difficult
You might want to dig your heels and fight for what you deserve - and that's understandable. However, you don't want to waste years and your precious time in divorce court due to nonsensical arguing. "Try to see the big picture, and take time to view issues from your spouse’s perspective," Jenkins adds. "Consider what your interests are, and don’t just take positions for the sake of taking a position." Source: Flickr/com/sreese37.