Connect with us

Love on Tinder: It Isn’t Just for Hookups

Tinder App
Tinder.

Relationships

Love on Tinder: It Isn’t Just for Hookups

Is there more to Tinder than hookups? Two couples found love and share how.

Dating in this century is like a painful game of Dodgeball. You run away to avoid getting hit, make calculated moves to find your mark, and try for the perfect shot. It’s like a gauntlet out there, and with so many of us addicted to social media most turn to online dating and dating apps to meet our match. But, does it work? Can you really find love on dating apps like Tinder which is infamous for hookups? It depends. Online dating can be hit or miss – just like dodge ball.

After chatting with some friends, I learned the most popular dating app is in fact Tinder. Tinder’s process is simple: it matches you with someone based on mutual attraction. The “swipes” are all anonymous, meaning unless both “swiped right” no one will ever know. If you find each other mutually attractive, Tinder notifies you with “It’s a Match.”

PLUS: How to Get That Cutie to Swipe “Hot” on Tinder

Sounds really superficial right? As I said, many use Tinder for hook-ups, but the dating app might surprise you and lead to that fairytale, happily ever after love story you’ve been searching for. In my circle of friends, I know two couples that not only met through Tinder, but are also now engaged after being together less than a year. Shocking, I know! Why did Tinder work for them? They gave me some dating advice and tips on how you can find love on Tinder:

“It’s all about what you put into it.”

Yes, there are random hook ups, but if you’re patient and don’t over “like” to find a match you can find someone special. It’s not just about the attraction; you have to click on the profile, really get to know the person, and make sure you like what you see (pictures can be deceiving).

“Don’t settle.”

If you have a checklist, make sure you’re dating someone that meets your criteria. It’s about quality over quantity.

“Get offline.”

It’s a dating app on social media; you’re outsourcing your love life to technology. There’s no matchmaker vetting out the crazies and people are not always who they say they are. The best way to know if the person behind the profile is who he or she claims to be is through an actual conversation over an actual phone. After the initial “hello” through the apps messaging service, go old school. Pick up the phone and call. Talking to a person gives you a sense of who they truly are before taking it to the next level. So talk to them before going out on an actual date.

“He SUPER-LIKED me, and I SUPER-LIKED him.”

Tinder’s latest feature is the “Super-Like,” which allows you to differentiate between those you kinda like and those you really, really like. You’re only allowed to “super-like” one person a day (you do so with an upwards swipe), which helps weed out those who aren’t interested in a long-term relationship.

WATCH: The Best Profile Photos for Online Dating

“After talking all night on the phone, we couldn’t wait to meet in person. The rest is history.”

Sometimes you just know. You truly either click or you don’t. So be selfish. If you’re truly looking for love, don’t be afraid to walk away from someone if the chemistry isn’t there. This doesn’t make you a jerk, it makes you honest. Besides, you’re better off not wasting each other’s time. Just know what you’re looking for, especially when dating on Tinder. It’s that simple.

Former TV producer and current Entertainment journalist for local and national publications covering nightlife, music, and fashion, Victoria has a passion for the written word. A small town girl livin’ it up in Miami running her own Marketing & PR company - ITM Media - she is heavily involved in the media industry. From event management to artist relations, she does it all and loves it. She has an old-fashioned meets modern world-view on all things love, dating, relationships, and single motherhood, and loves being an independent Latina. When she’s not writing about sex and dating for LoveSujeiry, scoping out new artists for Just Breezies, or covering Miami’s nightlife for her own lifestyle site, ViqueInTheMix, she’s being a “Momager” to her overly active son. She believes that with love and kindness anything is possible. Read Vique’s posts HERE.

Comments

More in Relationships

Advertisement

Get Love In Your Inbox

Sign up for the Love Sujeiry newsletter and receive a free chapter of Dating RITE. Plus, stay in the know on all things love, including videos, articles, merch and events.
Email address
Secure and Spam free...

Trending

Facebook

Contributors

Podcast

Instagram

  • It isnt easy to start over It isnt easy to
  • This Saturday and throughout HispanicHeritageMonth we are TakingBackLatina We are
  • I mean whos got time for BS? Especially not when
  • I met kyrzayda at an event two years ago and
  • Im aging yo I see fine lines underneath my eyes
  • Theres nothing like a womans intuition Even more so mommas
  • A lot of people ask me how Ive accomplished so
  • If I were an animal Id be a flamingo They

Love Bytes

To Top