I was once addicted to hot men. Chiseled jaw and abs, a Roman nose, a fully-formed goatee, and a luscious head of hair: these physical features got me every time. Thing is men that are hot and simultaneously sweet and thoughtful are few and far between. Hot men get everything they want because they’re hot. They rarely think of others because they’re hot. And if they ever show consideration it’s only because they want something in return. They’re hotness often makes them selfish and self-absorbed. I mean, have you tried sharing a mirror with a hot guy?
So I promised myself: no more hot men! At 30 years old, I rejected any dude who looked like he just walked off a catwalk. Instead, I focused on meeting men who were good looking but not GQ-cover-of-a magazine hot. That way they had a fully formed personality. Ladies, personality trumps physical appearance every time.
Speaking of personality, funny men are way better than hot ones, and not just because they will keep you in stitches. Here’s why you should forgo the Adonis and date a funny guy.
He is better in bed.
A new study revealed that men who are funny are better in bed. That’s because women have more orgasms when they consider their partner to be funny. You’ll get your fill of Big O’s with a silly lover. (Gif Source: Litizen)
He makes you feel good in your skin.
Funny men aren’t as pretentious as hot guys. That’s why you feel good in your skin when you’re with him – morning, noon and night. He doesn’t pick at your body. Funny guys are less about what you look like and more about who you are. And that’s just sexy. (Gif Source: Elite Daily)
He is social.
Most funny people are super social, where as super attractive men and women are kind of stuck up. Leave the guy with the Resting Bitch Face, and date the guy who will smile and engage with your friends and family. (Gif Source: Scooppick)
He is creative and witty.
To be funny you have to be creative and witty. You have to be quick on your feet. The fact that your guy is funny means he has all of these extra amazing qualities. Kudos to funny men! (Gif Source: Rebloggy.)
Humor is a desired trait.
Do you know how many people wish they were funny? Tons. And a funny guy is just humous naturally. It truly is a wonderful personality trait, and one that you can enjoy when you choose him.