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3 Reasons to Take Your Man to a Sex Toy Shop

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3 Reasons to Take Your Man to a Sex Toy Shop

If you want to spice up your sex life, take your man to a sex toy shop.

When I first walked into a sex store I envisioned my very Catholic and very Dominican mother dropping to her knees. “Santo Dios!” she yelled while dousing me with holy water. I’d scurry right out, like a mouse that’s been caught in a trashcan. I felt like such a sinner.

Eventually, I pushed my mami guilt aside and returned to that very sex shop in the West Village. I perused the mini bullets. I shrieked when introduced to a 10-inch dido. A late bloomer, I couldn’t handle all of that, but I really wanted to buy a vibrator. I just feared Mami would ”discover” it while “organizing my drawers.” So I went the safe route. Just like the first time, I walked out of the sex shop empty-handed and used my well-equipped fingers instead.

Now, I’m an adult. What my mother knows may hurt her, but it doesn’t affect me anymore. I have one life to live, and I want to live it in a sex shop! Or at least be able to go to a sex shop with my boyfriend.

Yes, I said my boyfriend. Going to a sex shop with your significant other is healthy for a relationship. A sex shop is the perfect place to spice up what happens en la cama. Or in a bathroom stall of a club in Midtown, if you’re a little kinky. (Take that, Mami!) But back to that sex shop in Long Island. That’s where my boo and I ventured to one weekend.

ALSO READ: 5 Odd Sexual Acts That I Learned from Urban Dictionary

You should visit a sex shop with your man as it allows you to:

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We all have fetishes. Your man may gravitate toward a specific sex toy over another. Maybe he’s into role-play. Maybe he’s into S&M. If you haven’t already, you will discover this when you are in a sex shop. Read the rest of the tips on!

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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