You’ve set up your profile and have ignored the “Hey boo” and “Let’s boogy” emails from the boys and the geezers, but still don’t feel like you’re close to meeting a man online. Well, then do something about it! While online dating, it’s necessary to be proactive. You can’t expect to get a date with someone you do like if you don’t sift through profiles. So click on that ‘Search’ button and create a selective search that suits your romantical needs. When you see someone you like, send them a ‘wink’. I always suggest starting simple because women should be courted. If he likes you, he’ll email you. If not, then keep it moving. Because being proactive doesn’t mean being a stalker!