Last night, Ivory Bryant and I joined forces at a love and dating event at Milagros Designs in Englewood, NJ. The owner of The Matchmaking Boutique spoke on the do’s and don’ts of dating and why many men and women are single in this day and age. She mentioned:
1. Not knowing who you are or what you want.
2. Lacking in self-love and confidence. In other words, you are not “self-first.”
3. Holding onto the past and allowing a past relationship and heartbreak to hold you back from moving on.
4. Not being open to love.
I then took the floor and added some of my thoughts on why many people are single. It comes down to choosing the wrong partner because you do not believe that you are enough. It also has a lot to do with timing. Once you’re secure, know what you want, know who you are, and reject men that offer situations and relationships that don’t align with self-love, that’s when you’ll meet the person that’s right for you.
I also read an expert of Love Trips. The book sold like hotcakes! Have you bought your copy yet? If not, you can HERE.
And now some photos of last night!