I’ve been in a relationship for six years. We love and care for each other. On Valentine’s Day he send me flowers and chocolates then all of a sudden he disappeared. He has not communicated with me at all since then.
I have tried to reach him. I have texted him and called but he does not reply. What do you think happened? What is going on? Should I move on and forget about him?
He Just Stopped Calling
Dear He Just Stopped Calling,
Wow. I don’t know what to tell you, hon. I have heard of men who stop calling. I have given advice to many women because their significant other’s went missing in action. But this sudden disappearance with no response or regard to your feelings, or your six-year relationship, baffles me.
There must be a reason. I don’t know many men who just stop calling after investing so much time in a relationship. And he sent you flowers and chocolates on Valentine’s Day! Did he say anything that day? Was there a note that may explain this craziness?
What you can do now is try to get to the bottom of it…if you can. Have you called family and friends to make sure he is safe? Have you stopped by his place? After being together for six years, you must have access to his life, including his home or place of employment. If you have done so already, and maybe even checked social media pages to get a clue, and you find that he is healthy and able to pick up the phone and reply, you need to move on. If this is the case, he was too much of a coward to face you and break off your relationship like a man.
Love strongly and wisely,
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