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Ask Sujeiry: Why Did My Man of 6 Years Just Stop Calling?

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Ask Sujeiry: Why Did My Man of 6 Years Just Stop Calling?

When a man stops calling after a six year relationship, it’s time to get to the bottom of his disappearance. Some relationship advice to do just that.

Dear Sujeiry,

I’ve been in a relationship for six years. We love and care for each other. On Valentine’s Day he send me flowers and chocolates then all of a sudden he disappeared. He has not communicated with me at all since then.

I have tried to reach him. I have texted him and called but he does not reply. What do you think happened? What is going on? Should I move on and forget about him?

Sincerely,

He Just Stopped Calling

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Dear He Just Stopped Calling,

Wow. I don’t know what to tell you, hon. I have heard of men who stop calling. I have given advice to many women because their significant other’s went missing in action. But this sudden disappearance with no response or regard to your feelings, or  your six-year relationship, baffles me.

There must be a reason. I don’t know many men who just stop calling after investing so much time in a relationship. And he sent you flowers and chocolates on Valentine’s Day! Did he say anything that day? Was there a note that may explain this craziness?

PLUS: About Breakups and How to Move On from a Relationship

What you can do now is try to get to the bottom of it…if you can. Have you called family and friends to make sure he is safe? Have you stopped by his place? After being together for six years, you must have access to his life, including his home or place of employment. If you have done so already, and maybe even checked social media pages to get a clue, and you find that he is healthy and able to pick up the phone and reply, you need to move on. If this is the case, he was too much of a coward to face you and break off your relationship like a man.

Love strongly and wisely,

Sujeiry

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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