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Ask Sujeiry: Why Are Latinas So Bitchy in Relationships?

A man asks for relationship advice and wonders why Latinas are bitches. What does Sujeiry, love guru and expert, have to say about his generalization?

Angry Woman

If you keep dating bitchy Latinas, take a look at yourself.

Dear Sujeiry,

I’ve dated Latinas all my life. I am also Latino. I haven’t had the best experience. They are controlling, domineering, and bitchy.

I don’t mean to generalize but it is a quality that I have found in all the Latinas that I have dated, including my ex-wife. Why are Latinas so bitchy in relationships? Please enlighten me.

Sincerely,

Stuck on Bitch

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Dear Stuck on Bitch,

I’m not going to yell at you for calling me (I’m Latina, helllooo!), my family members and most of my girlfriends bitchy (or bitches.) Instead, I am going to help you.

Do you know what I tell women who email me for relationship advice and ask why men are dogs? I tell them they are choosing these “dogs.” So, the same goes for you; you are choosing women who are bitchy.

[ALSO READ: How to Properly Apologize in Relationships]

I have a friend who is also Latino and shares your experience. He’s dated women of different backgrounds but they have all treated him terribly, including two ex-wives. They are domineering, controlling, mean. He always falls for the same type of woman.

So, you see, this isn’t a cultural thing, love. This is a you thing. I will tell you what I told my friend, and many other women who generalize men: the common denominator is you.

Evaluate why you gravitate toward bitchy women and then make a different choice.

Love strongly and wisely,

Sujeiry

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of LoveSujeiry.com. She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto LoveSujeiry.com - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on Latina.com works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.

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