Connect with us

Ask Sujeiry: Why Do Men Just Want to Sleep with Me?

Woman Crying Mascara
Google Images.


Ask Sujeiry: Why Do Men Just Want to Sleep with Me?

Relationship advice from Latina love coach for a woman who meets men who just want to sleep with her. What can she do to turn her love life around?

Dear Sujeiry,

I’m 22 and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I am usually in casual relationships and it seems that the only guys who show an interest in me just want to sleep with me, not actually form a relationship, so I’m not sure if that’s because I’m putting out a weird vibe or something else entirely.

As for what I look like, I think of myself as average looking. I don’t wear make up cause I’m not girly. I am really mature though so maybe I need to dumb myself down or something and wear lipstick. I just don’t know how to get guys to notice me in a positive way. Can you help me?


Just Casual Sex

Dear Just Casual Sex,

You need to attract healthy romantic relationship, and you are not! That’s because you don’t feel you deserve it. You need to work on your self-confidence and level of self-worth. You also need to NOT sleep with men who just want to sleep with you. Why do so if they just want sex and you want more? Even if this means waiting for love, isn’t it better than setting yourself up for more hurt and disappointment, which ultimately destroys your self-esteem? Yes, it is!

PLUS: Relationship Advice: How to Say You’re Sorry and Mean It

So, get to work on yourself. Be self-first. If you are interested in coaching services, make sure to contact me!

Continue Reading

Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


More in Advice

Get Love In Your Inbox

Sign up for the Love Sujeiry newsletter and receive a free chapter of Dating RITE. Plus, stay in the know on all things love, including videos, articles, merch and events.
Email address
Secure and Spam free...






  • Honored to share a space in the podcast universe with
  • Leaving the city exhilarated after speaking on a panel of
  • TBT to jennypbautista spending time with me in Queens! So
  • Happy birthday Mami! I strive to be as supportive of
  • Happy Saturday! toddlermomlife parkfun toddlerboy happyson latinamom
  • No lie I can spend 4 hours in Marshalls
  • I believe that the way to live life is to
  • Evan you fill me with a love thats Godly So

Latina TV

To Top