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Ask Sujeiry: I’m Starting Over. How Do I Start Dating Again?

Starting Over How Do I Start Dating Again


Ask Sujeiry: I’m Starting Over. How Do I Start Dating Again?

Relationship advice from relationship expert on how to date again after divorce and separation. Ways to start over and how to get back on the market.

Starting Over How Do I Start Dating Again

After years of not dating, here’s how to get back on the market.

Dear Sujeiry,

I wanted to ask you what’s a good way to get back to dating after years off the market?


Starting Over


Dear Starting Over,

I don know how long it’s been since you’ve dated but times have changed. Due to technology and social media, there are many options when starting over. There’s online dating and speeddating, and even meetup groups for singles.

The approach you take depends on how much time you want to invest in dating and what tools work for you.

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So, venture out and feel it out. Sign up for a free trial on Attend a speeddating event in your city (if you Google speeddating, you should find these events). Try free online dating sites like OkCupid. Join Meetup groups for singles in your city. You can also join Meetup groups based on hobbies and activities.

Bottom line, you have to be proactive. You won’t meet someone sitting on your sofa. It’s about networking, mingling and putting yourself out there. That’s the best way to reenter the world of dating. But you have to be ready. If you’re not, it’s all in vain.

Love strongly and wisely,


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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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