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Ask Sujeiry: Should I Ask A Guy Out on a Date?

A woman asks Sujeiry for relationship advice and wonders if she should ask a guy out on a date. Her advice follows.

Dear Sujeiry,

There’s this guy that I really like. I flirt with him and drop hints that he should ask me out, like, “We should do drinks sometime,” but he hasn’t asked me out yet. Should I just pursue him harder? I ain’t shy but I want to make sure that I don’t intimidate him. So maybe asking him would break the ice. So, should I ask this guy out?


Femme Fatale

Dear Femme Fatale,

Should you ask him out? Sure! It’s 2014, not 1414. As modern day women, we can do anything we want, and that includes pursuing a man.

But be cautious. Coming on too strong can be a turn off to some men. Ask him out without expectations. You’ve already “hinted” that you should go out for drinks and he hasn’t taken the bate. He may not be that into you, or he may not be interested in you at all.

ALSO READ: Why Won’t He Reply? And Ways to Avoid A Texting Overdose

Bottom line, when a man wants to pursue a gal, he does. Still, the worse thing you can do is leave it to assumption or speculation. You want to go out with him? Be bold and straight forward and ask! Just accept whatever happens with grace and confidence.

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Sujeiry is a natural storyteller, dynamic radio show host and the proud CEO of She's been at this digital media and content creation game for 15 plus years and pours her heart and soul onto - the only site for Latinas on all things love. After realizing there was a void in the love/relationship Latina media market, she took matters into her own hands and became the go-to sex and relationship expert on Latinx platforms. The former sex and relationship expert on works diligently and passionately to encourage women of color to be their authentic selves as they navigate all things love.


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