There’s this guy that I really like. I flirt with him and drop hints that he should ask me out, like, “We should do drinks sometime,” but he hasn’t asked me out yet. Should I just pursue him harder? I ain’t shy but I want to make sure that I don’t intimidate him. So maybe asking him would break the ice. So, should I ask this guy out?
Dear Femme Fatale,
Should you ask him out? Sure! It’s 2014, not 1414. As modern day women, we can do anything we want, and that includes pursuing a man.
But be cautious. Coming on too strong can be a turn off to some men. Ask him out without expectations. You’ve already “hinted” that you should go out for drinks and he hasn’t taken the bate. He may not be that into you, or he may not be interested in you at all.
Bottom line, when a man wants to pursue a gal, he does. Still, the worse thing you can do is leave it to assumption or speculation. You want to go out with him? Be bold and straight forward and ask! Just accept whatever happens with grace and confidence.
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